Friday, May 30, 2008

PHS


Last night I attended the graduation ceremonies for Provo High School's class of 2008. My cutie little sister Char graduated, and I can't believe she's old enough to do that! In about a four days she's moving out for the summer, and it's blowing my mind. Anyway, her graduation was kind of a big deal for me as I reminisced about my own graduation, what's happened since, and how much I loved high school.

I'm sure many of my fellow Provo Highans will agree that we had the absolute best high school experience anyone could ask for. Since last night I've seen two of my dear friends from Provo High, and with both of them I talked about the magic of our years there.

It never felt clique-y. Everyone knew each other, and everyone was friends. Of course there were groups of people who hung out together and whatever, but I never felt like there were certain people who could or could not talk to one another and be friends. I felt so at home there. Walking down the halls and knowing just about everyone and them knowing me made me feel so secure. Compared to BYU where everyone walks around and stares at each other, it's wonderful.

We had such amazing teachers. I saw Mr. Smith last night from a distance and wished I could go find him and tell him things while he nodded and said, "That's great, Erin." and maybe gave me a little chuckle to make me feel funny. Some of my favorite books are the ones we read in Mrs. Brown's class. I had that poem she gave us on the last day of school Junior year hanging up in my bedroom for a few years. Just the other day I thought about Mr. Moore's class and how he made everyone feel cool, even if they weren't. Sometimes I pull out the CD recording of the Masterworks concert at the tabernacle Junior year and I'm amazed that Mr. Crane took a bunch of kids who joined choir so they could go to San Diego on tour and made them sound so incredible. The reason I'm majoring in Art History is because of Mrs. McConnell's class, I loved how much she loved art and she made me love it too.

I'm still in touch with so many of my Provo High friends. I haven't met anyone in college who still hangs out with their high school friends as much as we do. Maybe that means we're not moving on. But I prefer to think of it as not needing to move on--why would we? When you have a fabulous group of people, why get rid of them? I've decided instead to simply add to that group.

I LOVE the people I've met in my years at BYU. I have a group of friends that I will stay friends with forever. And I think that's the thing I've loved most about both my high school and my college years. I have a whole bunch of people in my life that I just love. And whether we talk once a week or just a few times a year, that closeness is still there.

I'm glad my life has turned out the way it has. That my old roommates from BYU can run into my friends from high school, and they're friends too. (Or they're married to each other, for crying out loud!) I love that there's one big group, just what I loved about PHS.

Sometimes it's embarrassing to be so into your high school. I feel like it's a cool thing in college to have hated high school and say you never talk to anyone, and you will never go to your reunions, etc. But here I proudly proclaim my love for Provo High and the time I spent there. I loved every minute of it. And I'm sure you did too if you went there.

12 comments:

Cierra said...

i love this post. because i totally remember all of your sweet high school stories and friends. and i have always been a bit jealous of your high school experience...not that mine was bad, but yours just sounds AMAZING!

and it's no wonder you continue to keep in contact with all of your friends...it's because no one wants to lose contact with YOU!

just nikki said...

I loved high school. People look at me like I'm insane when I admit it, but I really did love it. Sometimes I still miss it. I'm glad to have moved on, but those were good days. Was that poem called Desiderata? Because it was awesome. And so is Mrs. McConnell.

mary.katherine said...

Erin,
I found your blog through Jessica Van Buren's. I thought the same thing about Provo High. It was worded just perfectly! Hope all is well for you!
Katie Shumway

Nickell said...

I have to agree...

Becca said...

Erin! I love you for writing this post! I have been having quite the dilemma recently about whether I must needs "move on" or not from High School. But reading this makes me realize it too: we had the best high school ever. I loved how your class was so super school spirit and my class was 100% opposite: no one wore green or dressed up. Even those in student government. But that didn't mean we didn't love school. I have such great friends that I made in high school. In fact...I didn't really make that many in college that I stay in touch with or that I love as much as I did those from HS.

PHS...it really is amazing.

ps-Mr. Smith and his wife bought a camera from me when I worked at Circuit City last summer. It was funny, because I asked him, "So has there been a worse student government than my year?"
He simply laughed right out loud. And I didn't feel funny...we both just knew that it was impossible to be worse than my year.

Jessica said...

I really appreciated this post, ironically the same day you posted this I found my senior year book and spent the night browsing the pages, and reminiscing. We had a great high school run, especially our senior year!!

the.kim.peterson said...

here here. People always make fun of me because of how much I love/loved high school. Most people don't really believe me when I say there weren't cliques, but I like to think they're weren't. Plus, I still love all you guys, even though I rarely see you these days.
I guess we'll always have scrabble.

Ana Steinagel said...

AGREED.

Cierra said...

oh gosh, i'm just gonna respond to your comment here:

hahaha oh my gosh, nothing, and i mean NOTHING could ever top our DT hobo experience! i need to find those pictures! what could be better than brown-bagging some apple-beer (was that what it was?) and dressing up like homeless people and taking pictures in the gutters?

and don't worry about stalking, cause i do it like everyday. i always look at other people's blogs and i have no clue who the heck they are. but you've met my family, so no need to consider it stalking. :) and yes, our gingerbread/sound of music tradition is the BOMB dot com. and so was alfredo's outfit for the nativity...haha so glad you saw that!!

miss you. sorry for the essay.

Jordan said...

hey erin, what's your number?! 04, 04, 0, 0, 04!

olivia said...

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU! The first thank you if for reading the essays on my blog. The second thank you is for commenting. And the third thank you is for this amazing post! We've been in the thick of planning our 5 year reunion (it's tomorrow) and so I've been thinking a lot back to PHS. I KNOW I made the comment to someone recently that I thought I was the only one in the world who didn't hate high school & "never go back". I'm glad to see I'm not the only 'odd-one-out' who would love to live those years again! Because I really loved every minute of it too & I WOULD love to go back! Oh, & I saw Smitty this week as we raded the Stud.Gov. room for butcher paper & decorations... Ah, that high-feeling/smell just all came back!

Thanks again!

deb-bot said...

Erin! High school was hilarious. So many memories. Love it!